Tomorrow is the big show. Candidates and their legions of volunteers - political junkies of all stripes - will violate comfort zones, theirs and others, outside of polling places, in a day of dramatic, last-ditch, desperate activity, followed by an evening of sharp-eyed, nervous news-watching. By the day after tomorrow, the winners will have won, the losers will have lost, and the pundits will pick at the corpse of all the hopes and fears that are played out on the grand stage of local and state politics.
I'll never be one of those cynics who say it doesn't matter - it does. Will Missouri serve as a research center to help come up with life-saving cures, alleviating pain and misery? Will the Bush administration be subjected to oversight in its bungling of the war? Will Congress continue to stack massive debt on the unborn, in the form of an uncontrolled budget deficit?
But, in the rush of argument and conflict, it's worthwhile to step back a pace or two and put things into perspective. There ARE things that matter more to our daily lives than the crush of politics, and some people are likely to forget that important fact for the next 24 hours.
1. Family: Even when they're an insane distance away - even when they're in a different part of the country becoming a fabulous person you never imagined - even (especially?) when they're next to you day by mundane precious day for decades, there's a history and a tie there like nothing else. Take a moment tomorrow and let them know they matter more to you than your Senate candidate. They know it, but they might be surprised to know you do.
2. Art: Be it poetry, a favorite painting, a guitar riff, or a novel, a work of art that really touches you is a far greater accomplishment than a push poll, a yard sign, or a whole campaign. A friend of mine bumped into Alan Wheat and his wife at the theater the day after his loss to John Ashcroft for the Senate, and that confirmed to me that the United States would be a better country if Wheat had won. A man who seeks solace in artistic expression is a far better man that one who covers statues with drapery.
3. Friends: I'm blessed with friends, and I appreciate them every day. Friends who hear that I have a problem and start helping before I even ask. Friends who make me laugh over mugs of beer on a Saturday afternoon until my ribs hurt. Friends who read this blog and share their opinions, in person or in comments. I like to think that I am a pretty good friend, but friendship is a debt that keeps on building. So many people are so important to me in so many ways. And some of them are even Republicans.
4. Kids: Little soccer players with shin guards, the baby with the big, round, bald head and a goofy smile I saw at lunch today, the vanloads of excited trick-or-treaters running through the neighborhood last week, the charming kids with disabilities I'll see tomorrow . . . Any one of them may change the world - actually, each of them has. Appeciate them, and let them know it if you get the chance. Smile back and make faces at babies.
5. Mystery: What makes you wonder? What fascinates you, and makes you want to know more? God? Physics? What it was like to be a soldier in the Civil War? Indian cooking? Far away lands? That sense of wonder is what makes you so interesting.
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Tomorrow will offer the opportunity to witness a whole lot of people losing perspective. The losers will feel like the United States has proven that its culture is going down the tubes. The winners will think a new day is dawning, and things will be much better soon. And they're both partially right. But really, they're just suffering from a loss of perspective.
And I'll probably be one of them. If I'm on the winning side, I'll roll with it. If I wind up on the losing side, though, I hope I stop moping and start thinking about the things that matter more. A whole lot more.